Forgiveness is one of the most powerful, yet challenging, acts we can practice as followers of Christ. It is not only a command but also a gift that brings freedom to both the one offering forgiveness and the one receiving it. In Matthew 18:21-22, when Peter asked Jesus how often he should forgive his brother who sins against him, Jesus responded, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.” This statement shows the limitless nature of forgiveness in the Kingdom of God.

Forgiveness is transformative because it is the path to healing. When we hold onto bitterness, anger, or resentment, we create a prison for our hearts and minds. But when we choose to forgive, we release ourselves from the chains of bitterness. Ephesians 4:31-32 calls us to let go of all forms of malice and be kind and compassionate, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave us. Forgiveness allows us to break free from the hold of hurt and begin the journey toward healing and restoration.

Forgiveness is also an act of obedience to God. Colossians 3:13 urges us to bear with one another and forgive one another, just as the Lord forgave us. When we forgive, we align ourselves with God’s character, reflecting His grace and mercy. It’s a way of acknowledging that we are not the final judge, and that vengeance belongs to God alone (Romans 12:19). In forgiving, we trust that God will take care of the wrongs done to us, and we relinquish our desire for justice to His perfect will.

Furthermore, forgiveness opens the door to reconciliation. It’s not just about letting go of negative emotions, but also about rebuilding relationships. Jesus taught in Matthew 5:23-24 that if we are offering a gift at the altar and remember that someone has something against us, we should first go and be reconciled to that person before offering our gift. This indicates that forgiveness is vital for restoring broken relationships and that reconciliation should be our goal.

Forgiveness can be difficult, especially when the offense is deep or painful. But the power of forgiveness is undeniable. When we choose to forgive, we reflect the heart of Christ. Jesus’ death on the cross was the ultimate act of forgiveness. He forgave the very people who were crucifying Him, saying, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” (Luke 23:34). In doing so, He set the example for us to follow.

Forgiveness is not a one-time act, but a continual choice to release our pain and bitterness into God’s hands. As we forgive others, we experience freedom and peace, and we honour God in the process. It’s a powerful reminder that God’s love and forgiveness are endless, and as His children, we are called to extend that same grace to others.