Loving others is one of the core principles of Christianity, yet it becomes incredibly challenging when we encounter people who test our patience. It is easy to love those who treat us well, but what about those who are rude, hurtful, or even hostile? Jesus’ command is radical:

Luke 6:27-28  “Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.”

These words challenge our natural instincts, yet they reflect the very love God has shown us.

Romans 5:8  “God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”

Just as God loves us despite our shortcomings, we are called to extend that same grace to others.

Loving difficult people does not mean excusing harmful behaviour, but it does mean choosing forgiveness over resentment.

Colossians 3:13  “… bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone.”

Holding onto bitterness only damages our own hearts. Instead, Jesus calls us to pray for those who wrong us. Prayer shifts our perspective, softening our hearts and allowing God to work in ways we cannot see.

While it may be difficult, loving the unlovable is one of the most powerful ways we reflect Christ to the world. In doing so, we embody the grace that we ourselves have received.