Forgiveness is one of the hardest commands Jesus gave us. Yet in a broken world filled with hurt, it is essential for freedom and spiritual growth.

In Matthew 18:21-22, Peter asked Jesus how many times he should forgive someone. Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.” In other words, forgiveness is not a one-time act but a lifestyle for every believer.

This can feel impossible when the pain is deep. Whether it’s betrayal, abuse, or repeated wrongs, our human instinct is often to hold on to anger. But unforgiveness is a prison that chains us, not the offender. Bitterness hardens our hearts and blocks us from experiencing the peace of God.

Ephesians 4:32 gives a clear instruction: “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” We don’t forgive because people deserve it – we forgive because we have been forgiven. That perspective shifts everything.

Forgiveness does not mean forgetting or excusing sin. It doesn’t require reconciliation in every case, especially where trust has been destroyed or safety is at risk. But it does mean releasing the offender into God’s hands and choosing not to carry the burden of judgment ourselves.

The Holy Spirit empowers us to do what we cannot do on our own. As we submit our pain to God, He begins to heal and restore what was broken. Forgiveness becomes a testimony of God’s grace at work in us.

In a world where revenge is celebrated and grudges are normal, forgiveness is radical. It’s one of the most powerful ways we can reflect the heart of Christ. When we forgive, we unlock freedom – not just for others, but for ourselves.